7 Types of body language Gestures.

# Introduction

Hello friends, In this article I will share 7 types of body language Gestures. By which you can know what he/she is hiding, you can make your conversation better or you can speak with someone without hesitation.

So, let's start with the amazing.. amazing... body gestures.

#1 EXPRESSIVE GESTURES

You must have also noticed this thing and if you do not do so, then you must do the next time. Normally when two special friends meet after a long time or a person meets a person with whom he feels comfortable.

So as he meets, he becomes very excited and expressive like, he uses more hand movement, uses more facial expression, whereas the first time a person meets someone, he is very calm and uses less body movement and Gestures.

Hence if you want to send a friendly signal to someone So that they feel comfortable with you, then you should practice using more gestures.

By doing this, people will listen to your things more carefully and will also like you more. So use expressive gestures like Nod head when something feels right, Bring different expressions to your face while explaining something, Use hand movements, all these things associate you with comfort and liking.

And by using expressive gesture, you can find out who is interested in talking to you and who is not.

#2 TONE AND SPEED

How we speak, matter more than what we speak. That is why we should learn to read our own and others' tones well. If someone is speaking at a very high speed, he is either very excited or not comfortable and wants to end that conversion. 

Depending on the context and how is the nature of that person already, it is also important.

On the other hand, if someone is speaking more slowly than normal, speaking in low voice or in the same tone, then he is probably not so interesting in the conversion. 


Maybe he is too shy to speak. You should judge according to the context and body language.

#3 MIRRORING

Mirroring means copying his body language and his gestures of whoever you are talking to. If the person is talking with bind his arms, then you do the same or if someone is talking to you while bowing towards you, then do the same thing. 

Now the person in front of you will not notice you consciously. Unless you do same at all. 

By doing this you can build an instant connection with the person subconsciously. especially if you have met him/her recently, this technique will make the person feel subconsciously that you and he/she are old friends even if you have met a few minutes before.

#4 FORMING BARRIERS

People who are not comfortable with anyone often try to form a barrier between themselves and others, subconsciously. 

for ex.- If you are talking to a lady and she keeps her purse bag on her leg without any reason it may mean she is not comfortable while talking. 

Similarly tying your hands in front of your chest. It also forms a psychological barrier between two people. There can be other types of barriers, like placing an object between dinner table while talking, objects like bag, glass etc.

#5 HAIR FLIPPING/TOUCHING

If you are having a conversation with a girl and if she flips or touches her hair without breaking the eye contact, then it is often a signal that a good connection has been built between you.

But if she does this while looking somewhere else, it may mean that she is not feeling comfortable with you.

#6 EYE MOVEMENTS

If someone is moving their eyes up while talking to you. It indicates that he/she are getting your point wrong or is he/she thinking of you as stupid. If someone keeps his eyes closed for more than 1 to 2 seconds while talking to you. 

Then, it may be a signal that he is feeling uneasy or anxious to listen to you, now it would be best to excuse in such a situation.

If someone lashes the eyelid more than normal. it indicates that he/she is feeling anxious or is uncomfortable.

#7 LIP GESTURES 

Lips are one of the parts of the body that can be read to find very intimate information. Because it is very difficult for anyone to control their lips movement. Purse lips means to form round shape. 

It Indicates the disagreement from a point. Pursed lips means that person has formed an opposite opinion from you, which he cannot speak.

Pressing the lips between the teeth or pressing the lips tightly means that the person wants to say something but hesitating or trying to hide something. 

<p>Next time you see someone like this, you will ask them directly what you are hiding, then there is a chance that they can also tell you.</p>

These are the some points which i have told you from the book "The Like Switch".

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